Friday, February 19, 2021

New Muslim Teens' Podcast! Meet Jenna, Yousef and Jody!

 

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The Importance of Highlighting Talents and Praising Others' Work.

Once, I was volunteering as a field monitor assistant in a school field. I noticed that one of the kindergartener girls was giving everyone a hard time. She wasn’t listening to instructions, she wasn't following directions, she stayed in the field at recess, and she stayed where she wasn't supposed to stay. I was supposed to be monitoring the field, and I watched her closely. She didn’t listen to the recess teacher standing upon her head for more than forty minutes, and I was amazed by the teacher's level of patience. Even a mom would give up and would start to promise consequences.

I came closer to the girl, and I whispered nicely, “Wow! I like your shirt! Your mom has good taste!”

I didn't expect her to respond to my compliment, but to my surprise, she did, even she said something that was an eye-opener for me. She said, “Thank you! My dad got it for me on my birthday. My mom passed away last year.”

I was thankful that God inspired me to say something nice despite my initial impression. It was a life lesson for me not to jump to conclusions and not assume the bad from anyone...Ever!

I also learned that praising someone for something he/ she is good at would again turn back to us in a good way. It could come back to us in the form of good karma, or it could come back in the form of a meaningful relationship and a deeper connection, it could come back with a fruitful discussion, or it could come out in the form of more understanding and less judgment. This could be applied to adults as well as kids. 

After this life lesson, I decided to dedicate every platform I have to highlight others' amazing work, praise them and put others’ talents in the spotlight. Not only to make sure I use the gift of followers for a good cause, but also because praising other's good work instills purity in our hearts. Like Prophet Mohamed said, "No man is a true believer unless he desires for his brother that he desires for himself." Also, it is true that when the Muslims immigrated for the first time from Mekka to Medina, the people of Madina were generous and hospitable; they shared their homes and money with the newcomers from Mecca; hence, Allah praised their manners and set them as a role model of heart purity. God says about them,

(Those who were already firmly established in their homes [in Madina], and firmly rooted in faith and show love for those who migrated to them for refuge and harbor no resentment in their hearts for what has been given to them. They give them preference over themselves, even if they too are poor: those who are saved from their own souls' greed are truely successful) Quran (59:9)


 Thanks to my loyal followers, and thanks to everyone who made sure to send me poems, articles, artworks, or any contributions and kept my page and blog alive!


And now, I want you to meet Jenna, Yousef, and Jody. They are three Muslim teens who decided to make good use of their time during the lockdown. They launched this podcast channel to educate the public about Islam and share ideas on Islamic practices.

My kids enjoyed listening and learning from their podcasts. I loved how simple, straightforward language they used in their podcast, how it is full of inspiring stories from ancient Muslims' days and the Prophet companions' life experiences.
Please, make sure to visit and follow their spectacular channel here,

https://anchor.fm/jenna-deen/episodes/6-Characteristics-of-Moomins-endlmd?fbclid=IwAR1hOs4KiNtIEYh23Eg0r2Hv1wxId8lBUTVDFChYXBkLHFMVLqTnPApK4uA

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 Before you go, make sure to check out Little Farah Magazine issue 2. Also, check out issue 1. This is a free online magazine for Muslim kids. Feel free to contact me for a PDF.


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Publisher's Note:

 I dedicated every platform I have to highlight others' amazing work and put other talents in the spotlight. Not only to make sure I use the gift of followers for a good cause, but also praising others' good work instills purity in our hearts. Like Prophet Mohamed said, "No man is a true believer unless he desires for his brother that he desires for himself." Also, it is true that once the Muslim immigrated for the first time from Mekka to Medina, the people of Madina were generous and hospitable, they shared their homes, money with the newcomers from Mecca; hence, Allah praised their manners and set them as a symbol and a role model of heart purity. God says,

(Those who were already firmly established in their homes [in Madina], and firmly rooted in faith and show love for those who migrated to them for refuge and harbor no resentment in their hearts for what has been given to them. They give them preference over themselves, even if they too are poor: those who are saved from their own souls' greed are truly successful) Quran (59:9)

 Thanks to my loyal followers, and thanks to everyone who made sure to send me poems, articles, artworks, or any contributions and kept my page and blog alive!

Keep sharing! Keep shining!

Before you go, make sure to check out Little Farah Magazine issue 2. Also, check out issue 1. This is a free, online magazine for Muslim kids. Feel free to contact me for a PDF.


A read-aloud from my latest book Mrs. Z, the Substitute!

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Saturday, February 13, 2021

Eat, Drink and Let your Eyes Lit out of Joy!

 IF you're thinking of ways to remain sane, positively focused, and energetic during these overwhelmingly stressful times, I remembered these few verses that reflected how the ever-blessed Virgin Mary coped with her difficult situation. They inspired me! I’m sharing the story here so you, too, will get inspired. 

 

The ever-blessed Virgin Mary was overwhelmed. She thought and rethought how people would think of her unexpected pregnancy and what ordain was awaiting her beloved son.

She cried and cried.

She turned to God and said, “Oh, I wish I had died before this and was in oblivion, forgotten.”

God knew how tough it was on her, He knew the test was too hard for her to process, and no planning would help.

He let the baby Jesus talk to her. Baby Jesus (Peace be upon him) miraculously called her from below her and said, “Do not grieve, your Lord has provided beneath you a stream. As you shake toward the palm tree, it will drop upon you ripe, fresh dates. So eat and drink and let your eyes lit out of joy. And if you see from humanity anyone, say, “Indeed, I have vowed to the Most Merciful abstention, so I will not speak today to any human.”

Quran(16:23-36.)



This was a challenging situation. This was one of the many ways God taught us how to deal with pain and unplanned atrocities and calamities, especially with things that involve community gossiping or future planning.

He showed us a way...simply eat, drink and enjoy your life and let your eyes lit out of joy. Leave it be, leave them be, don’t react to every event, don’t respond to every talk. Stay happy and leave it to God. He Almighty knows best, he Almighty does best.

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Saturday, February 6, 2021

Blackness In Islam? How Prophet Mohammed Dealt with Racism?

 



As a non-black, Arabic-speaking Egyptian,  I was hesitant to write about this topic for so long because I believe there is no one to feel the black agony better than someone who has been through it. Moreover, our Black brothers and sisters are way more articulate than any other non-Black to address this issue. But, guess what? I felt that it's my duty to share the little knowledge I have from an Arab Muslim non-Black perspective.



BTW, my dad is from people of color; my brother, my sister, half of my inlaws are Black people from Sudan. My kids are from people of color. You don't have to be fully Black to feel for Black people or people of color. If you have someone you care about who is Black or from people of color, it is enough.





I understand that I’m obviously not Black. I didn't have to go through my Black sisters and brothers' long years of oppression and suffering. And after the arrests, the unfairness, and the long years of insurmountable compounded racism they have been through. So I say this is tough, and it takes time to process, and it takes time to heal, but it also takes time for the immigrant community or non-Blacks to understand. 

My suggestion for my non-Black immigrant community is to reach out, ask questions, get proper knowledge. Be kind. Pick your words and be considerate of people’s sensibilities. I'm not saying I'm an expert, I too have shortcomings, but we are all still learning in the process. We all make mistakes; however, our previous mistakes will eventually lead us through.


On the other hand,  and in order to fathom how hard it is and understand how the non-black communities could educate themselves and help Blacks, let’s look in-depth at the prophetic example. Let's navigate how Prophet Mohammed dealt with racism in his brand-new Muslim community.

As we all know, the prophet Mohammed was born in the Arabian Peninsula and among the Arab community that was known by showing off pride, bragging about their linguistic  skills, their social rank, and money. They even show off their outfits.  Arab men and women used to dress in a one-piece outfit, and the longer the dress train and the more it was embellished, the richer you were.  









Allah sent prophet Mohamed who was the opposite of all of that, he was born as an orphan, he was illiterate, he was born to highly respectful family, however, they were opposing him publicly; the Prophet Mohammed’s uncle Abu Lahab (Abdul-Uzza) and his wife got so creative when it came to humiliating the Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him).

At some point, you might ask, “If God sent him as a Prophet, why He almighty had to have his favorite Prophet to go through all these traumatizing events?” I’m assuming because when the prophet himself would go through all these atrocities, he would at some point understand where others were coming from, and he would be able to best serve them because he had been there.

And when we look at the most famous incident that addressed racism in Islam, our minds are unwillingly thinking Bilal Ibn Rabah, the famous Muslim Black-Figure. Bilal was born and lived in poverty because of his slavery despite his well-respected but enslaved lineage.

His mom was known by Hammama. They said she named herself so because she learned that hammama in Arabic means pigeon. So she wanted to refer to herself as a free pigeon.




Bilal was enslaved by Ommaya Ibn Khalaf. Bilal was the smartest among his slaves, and Ommayya would trust Bilal with his money, financial issues, and secret meetings. He rarely left him to watch his flock of sheep and always highlighted that Bilal had too strong mental skills and abilities to be involved in the shepherding work. This was not good news for his mate Orwa, the second-best choice for Ommayya. Orwa was always jealous of Bilal and was tired of his lord praising Bilal’s mental strength and charming voice. Bilal also used to sing during Ommaya’s parties.

Orwa was the one who told on Bilal when the latter converted to Islam. Also, Orwa was appointed by Ommaya to torture Bilal in all sorts of ways. Orwa hit Bilal, he kicked him, he lashed him, and he dragged Bilal all over sandy streets in Mecca's extremely hot weather while calling on everyone passing by to watch the disobedient slave getting tortured for disobeying his lord.

As a typical arrogant Arab, Ommaya was enraged with Bilal's perseverance. He went on and on. Ommayya tortured Bilal and tied his hands and limps, but nothing turned Bilal’s well. Ommaya’s last option was to place a heavy rock on the poor slave’s body to retaliate. Bilal was weakened from the long weeks of torture while not eating. All he could do was reciting “Ahad… Ahad”. Ahad means God is one, which is the opposite of what Ommaya believed in. Ommaya believed in polytheism, and like most Meccan people, he worshipped idols.

When Abu Bakr -Prophet Mohamed’s best friend- bought Bilal and set him free. Bilal was so in awe and disbelief!

It was too hard for the new Muslims to stay in Mecca after what they all had been through, so they moved to Medina.

 

After immigration to Medina, the Prophet Mohammed was in wonder, how to gather people all at once for prayer and how people would know that it was prayer time until one of the companions came and told him that he dreamed of someone calling people for prayer. So he recited the Athan recitation “the call for prayer.”

The prophet listened and asked him to teach the Athan words to Bilal. Then the Prophet PBUH appointed Bilal as the caller for prayer. He said Bilal had a soft and dew-like voice. He didn’t say good voice or charming voice; he said dew-like to reflect on how live and cheerful Bilal’s voice was.




When Prophet Mohamed won the battle against the Meccans and accomplished victory, he asked Bilal to go on the highest peak of the holiest figure for all Muslims, “The Kaaba,” the cuboid structure. Then, the Prophet asked Bilal to call people for prayer. He put Bilal in the spotlight. It seemed like he put him in a standout position. He made sure people would see him in a victory moment like they saw him in a vulnerable moment once before.




One more incident had happened when Abu-Zarr accidentally pumped into Bilal, and he insulted Bilal, saying, “You son of a black woman!” The Prophet Mohamed immediately called that person out and told him, “You still have ignorance in your heart!” The Prophet referred to Abu-Zarr as someone practicing non -Islamic teaching from the pre-Islamic era.

 

That was how the Prophet Mohamed handled it. This is the best way to handle racism in our community. It is to give people who suffered from racism a voice, we need to make sure to put them in the spotlight and hand them the responsibility to represent us and speak on our behalves and let them lead the efforts for a better future.

The long years of suffering, oppression and the unfairness of broken racist societies are their best resume builders.

 

Prophet Mohamed made sure to unify people and gather them around one god. He planned to end social discrimination and ranking people based on their skin color, and it seemed to work very well. In the Quran, there is no such thing, God never said a white prophet or a black prophet, and when God spoke about race in Quran, he said, “O mankind, indeed We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another. Indeed, the noblest of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is the All-Knowing and Aware.”

Prophet Mohammed said, “There is no superiority of an Arab over a non-Arab, or of a non-Arab over an Arab, and no superiority of a white person over a Black person or of a Black person over a white person, except on the basis of personal piety and righteousness.”

Note: My opinions are opinions, they are representing only me, and they are subject to discussions and modifications.


Update: The blog was published on February 6th and I unpublished this blogpost for a while to do edits and rephrase things that were misspoken in the original blog. Thanks for all who took the time to reflect and give me honest feedback.

Also, thanks to my amazing Black sisters and brothers who reached out to me regarding my book I'm Different...I'm Special. Just to let you know, I edited the wording, and if you get the first copy, I would love to take it back and give you the second edition at no additional cost. 

If you didn't get a copy yet, make sure to check the second edition here

There are always many ways to help, like supporting a Black business. 

Modest Family Solutions is a Black Muslim-owned business that offers gardening classes for kids and has a homeschooling facility. Check out their Facebook and their Website.

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Also, if you have a good grasp of the Arabic language, you can still look up great Arab writers who wrote about Bilal in-depth and in Arabic, like the Iraqi Novelist Dr. Ahmed Khairy El- Omari, who wrote Bilal’s Code Arabic Novel. He did a brilliant job mapping and mixing both Bilal’s experience with racism during the Islamic era and the American Cultural systematic racism. Dr. Omari’s novel was transformed into Bilal’s American movie, watch the trailer here,

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